butterflydreaming | {is slightly surprized}

taken from

Fave Non Poly =)
You're 60% Poly =) 84% tolerant of the poly lifestyle =) (But... you're 27% just in it for the sex =))

You're not very poly yourself (and that's cool - there's nothing wrong with monogamy at all =)) and you're awfully tolerant of poly
relationships which is a very cool thing =)

On top of that you scored low on the "just want to get laid by
everyone" scale and high on the honesty scale - all in all - you're my favorite non poly person today =)

Nice to meet you!

Oh - just so you don't go off wondering - the first question? the one
about monogamous cultures? the answer is 16% of recorded cultures have
been monogamous - 84% have been non monogamous! how about that? =)

Have a good one =)
Gabriel_Night

My test tracked 4 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:

You scored higher than 0% on True Poly
You scored higher than 18% on Tolerance
You scored higher than 86% on Sex Only
You scored higher than 70% on Honesty

Link: The Polyamorous Test written by Gabriel_Night on OkCupid Free Online Dating

I found this surprizing because I think it's accurate. I wouldn't mind sharing, I think, but I don't seek it out. I never even really gave it much thought pre-LJ, but when I saw how many of my LJ friends were poly, I thought, "Well, that's cool that they make it work." And one of you in particular can even make me believe in true love again. ^_^

I'm done and done with monogamy. It's not for me. I don't want to marry, either, not ever. I just want to be me, and love where I will, and be able to be grateful for any love that comes to me, in whatever degree that may be.

That's it. Simple.
{laughs ass off}

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Compassionate

You're 77% Poly =) 97% tolerant of the poly lifestyle =) (But... you're 13% just in it for the sex =))

A true poly, tolerant and loving, not just here for the sex and all around a good person...

but watch out... you're willing to lie to your mate to protect them, a typical compassionate pot hole - you'd do anything to prevent them from getting hurt right? (And lets face it having them upset at us doesn't help any either...)

Just becareful - some people will lie to protect their loved ones - and end up protecting them from ever knowing who you really are. That's not what you want - you should be finding someone who can love you for who you are and accept all the parts of you with out having to lie about any of them =/ And even that's something you can live with - If you're doing things you can't tell your loved one about anyway... you're not quite as good a person as you think you are =/

Becareful! That's all - end of sermon =)

You scored higher than 36%
on True Poly

You scored higher than 95%
on Tolerance

You scored higher than 52%
on Sex Only

You scored higher than 93%
on Honesty

Link: The Polyamorous Test written by Gabriel_Night on Ok Cupid

it's a little low on the sex :)
otherwise, eerily on. urk.

I'm willing to say that this may be a fairly accurate quiz. Which makes me wonder about how one would write such a quiz...

i dunno, because usually they're pretty bad. then again, perhaps despite the proofing issues, this person has some clue about test structure. it's both science and art. i learned a little (psych major) but not enough to be dangerous.

People always seem shocked when I tell them I never want to get married. "But what if you meet the right guy?" they say. Never seem to have a good or convincing response for them, and although my closest friends sort of accept good-naturedly that I'm never getting married, they think it's more a "she's a bitter single" than "she's principled" sort of thing.

Oh, it's terrible when you say such things if you're under 30. But somehow, either I'm keeping better company, or saying it with more conviction (cuz so many people think I still look under 30), because I don't usually get the arguement anymore. Anyway, now I can say "dodged that bullet" as a justification, if though that's really *not* the reason.

Heavenly Perfection
You're 86% Poly =) 100% tolerant of the poly lifestyle =) (But... you're 6% just in it for the sex =))

Ooooooohhhh Aaaaaaaaahhhhhh

You're poly.

You're tolerant of poly lifestyle. (Good for you you like yourself!)

You're not just here for the sex.

And you won't lie to your mate.

I *Like* YOU.

Congratualtions on being a pretty good person =)

Gabriel_Night

You scored higher than 61% on True Poly
You scored higher than 99% on Tolerance
You scored higher than 25% on Sex Only
You scored higher than 45% on Honesty

"Heavenly Perfection", eh? {giggles}

{is slightly surprized}

not surprised.

nonplussed.

Re: nonplussed.

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no subject

no real surprises here

sounds like fodder for merciless teasing