Do see IM&Y and tell me what you think. I think you'll like it. (I also think Hec is a bit dreamy. Llama lashes!)

I haven't seen Crash, either.

Brokeback Mt is what my best friend calls a "two aspirin movie". It puts you in such emotional turmoil, stirring up the levels, that you feel like you have to take two aspirin and lie down someplace quiet for a while. Anger, sadness, frustration, sympathy... and the anger comes from several places.

Angry is good. Angry makes things Change.